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      <image:caption>We are couples committed to restoring healthy communication, caring, and greater intimacy to our coupleships. We suffer from many problems, some identified and some not, some treated and some not. We also come from different levels of brokenness. Many of us have been separated or near divorce. Some of us are new in our coupleships and seek to build intimacy together. We have all sought healing in Recovering Couples Anonymous.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>We are couples committed to restoring healthy communication, caring, and greater intimacy to our Coupleships.  We suffer from many problems, some identified, and some not, some treated and some not.  We also come form different levels of brokenness.  Many of us have been separated or near divorce.  Some of us are new in our Coupleships and seek to build intimacy together.  We have all sought healing in Recovering Couples Anonymous (RCA).</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>•Fresh paint? •Squeaks and rattles? •Broken and bent pieces? •Misuse? •Lost or misplaced?</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2025-09-21</lastmod>
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      <image:caption>1. Emotional – Sharing feelings openly. 2. Physical – Touch, affection, sexual closeness. 3. Intellectual – Sharing thoughts &amp; ideas. 4. Experiential – Doing activities together. 5. Spiritual – Sharing values &amp; beliefs. 6. Creative – Collaborating to make something. 7. Conflict – A deeper connection that forms by openly and honestly facing and resolving conflicts and disagreements. ”Repairing”</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>•Early rejection, shame, or conflict around closeness from childhood (before 10 years old) •Cultural messages: Don’t ask stupid questions, Handle it yourself, Men don’t show emotions! •Avoidance = Safety, •Love = Pain, Intimacy = Fear</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>•Be open: 'I feel nervous sharing this’, create a “safe space agreement” with spouse •Be patient: with yourself: intimacy grows gradually and may feel very uncomfortable or painful at first •Be present: eye contact, listen fully with empathy and patience. Possibly hold hands of spouse •Seek self-regulation: pause, breathe when closeness feels overwhelming or “the past” arises, remember this is a “we are learning” conversation •Seek Understanding: ‘State what you heard so they know you hear them and be curious with what they say •Seek feedback: 'How can I connect with you better next time?'</image:caption>
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