Build Your Recovery Plan

Start where you are. Move forward together.

In Restoring Hope RCA, we understand that no two couples arrive at recovery the same way. Some are in crisis. Some have experience but feel stuck. Others are ready to grow but new to this program.

This is a 12-step, peer-led fellowship - not therapy or counseling. We offer structure, shared experience, and a path forward for couples navigating sex addiction recovery together.

In Crisis - Not New to Recovery

You’ve done some recovery work - but something has broken down.

This might look like:

  • A relapse, rupture, or breach of trust

  • Old patterns resurfacing

  • Disconnection despite previous progress

This is not starting over. This is returning to the work.

Re-Center Your Recovery:

1. Get Honest - Quickly
Avoid minimizing or delaying truth.
Honesty restores the foundation.

2. Re-Engage Your Program

  • Reconnect with meetings

  • Call your sponsor or accountability partners

  • Return to daily recovery practices

3. Revisit Boundaries & Agreements
What worked before? What needs to change?

  • Strengthen weak areas

  • Clarify expectations

4. Prioritize Couple Check-Ins
Structure matters:

  • Daily or scheduled check-ins

  • Focus on honesty, feelings, and needs - not blame

5. Identify What Slipped
Without shame, ask:

  • Where did structure break down?

  • What warning signs were missed?

Summary

Focus: Reconnect and re-engage

  • Get honest quickly

  • Reconnect with meetings + sponsor

  • Rebuild daily recovery habits

  • Revisit boundaries and agreements

  • Resume structured couple check-ins

Next Step: Contact your recovery network today