Not in Crisis, New to RCA

If you’re not in crisis but new to Restoring Hope RCA or Recovering Couples Anonymous, you’re in a powerful position to build a strong foundation for recovery as a couple. Many couples arrive here after doing individual work or recognizing the need for a structured path forward. RCA is a 12-step, peer-led fellowship designed specifically for couples navigating sex addiction recovery together—focused on rebuilding trust, creating safety, and developing lasting connection.

  BuildING Your Recovery Plan

You’re ready to grow - but need structure and direction.

Maybe:

  • You’ve done individual recovery work

  • You’re exploring healing as a couple

  • You’re looking for a program that supports both partners

This is where you begin building a strong, intentional foundation.

Build Your Recovery Together:

1. Attend RCA Meetings Consistently
Start with:

  • 1–2 meetings per week as a couple (or individually if needed)

2. Learn the RCA Framework
Familiarize yourselves with:

  • 12-step principles

  • Shared recovery language

  • Group structure and expectations

3. Establish a Weekly Couple Check-In
Create a rhythm:

  • Share openly

  • Practice listening without defensiveness

  • Build emotional safety

4. Define Boundaries & Expectations Early
Clarity prevents confusion:

  • Technology use

  • Communication standards

  • Personal recovery commitments

5. Build Individual + Couple Recovery
Strong couples are built on:

  • Individual accountability

  • Shared growth

SUMMARY

Focus: Build a strong foundation

  • Attend 1–2 meetings weekly

  • Learn 12-step structure and RCA format

  • Start weekly couple check-ins

  • Define boundaries early

  • Commit to individual + shared recovery

Next Step: Commit to your first 2 weeks of meetings